CONWAY — Bobby Graustein is on a mission to honor those who proudly served our nation and lost their lives in the line of duty. Among those was his grandfather, Lt. Cmdr. Robert S. Graustein, who was killed in Vietnam on Dec. 21, 1972.
Bobby, 16, never met his namesake but feels a special connection to the man he closely resembles.
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