April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. This is Part Two in a three-part series on the topic.
Where words fail, music begins. So says Natasha Repass, outreach coordinator for The Angel Band Project in Manhattan, a national non-profit providing music therapy to victims of sexual assault. She explains that music helps reprogram the trauma brain and provides an alternative path for telling one’s story when words are too difficult.
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