Domestic violence doesn’t just happen behind closed doors, and it’s not just a personal matter — it’s a public safety issue.
And while crisis agencies and law enforcement play critical roles, the truth is that friends, family members, neighbors, teachers and coworkers are often the first line of defense.
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