CONWAY — The holidays for many people are a time of festive gatherings with friends and family. But they also can increase stress and intensify feelings of loss and loneliness.
Melissa Kantner, behavioral health director and a psychiatric nurse practitioner at Memorial Hospital in North Conway, typically sees an uptick in loneliness, stress and depression around the holidays and afterward.
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