CONWAY — The benefits of sharing stories with those who in some instances "have been to hell and back" is at the heart of a relatively new veteran-centered focus group that meets Friday afternoons at the Merriman House at MaineHealth Memorial Hospital.
It started back in February as a veterans talk group but has expanded to include all residents at Merriman House, the hospital’s 45-bed long-term-care center.
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