To Have and to Hold — 'Dear Kaylee' gives a lesson on erectile issues

Dear Kaylee,

I recently started seeing someone new, and while we’ve been having a lot of fun together, there are some issues in the sex department. The biggest thing is that he seems to have a difficult time getting and staying hard. Sometimes he can’t get it up at all, and even when he can he loses it as soon as we try to put on a condom. He always apologizes and is very generous with oral, but I can’t help but feel a little insecure. I don’t want to embarrass him by bringing it up, but it’s definitely putting a strain on our new relationship. Is there something that he or I could be doing to make things better?